IN LOVING MEMORY OF

Shane

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Alder

Sep 3, 1973 — Nov 19, 2025

Obituary

Norman Shane Alder, beloved husband, father, son, brother, uncle, and friend, passed away on November 19, 2025, in Melba, Idaho, after courageously fighting cancer for three and a half years. He was 52 years old.

Shane was born on September 3, 1973, in Nampa, Idaho, to Norman Craig Alder and Kathryn Etta Rosier Alder. The second of six children, he grew up in Melba, where he learned the values of hard work, service, and faith. At just 13 years old, he achieved the rank of Eagle Scout, a testament to his dedication and determination even from a young age.

A proud graduate of Melba High School, Shane later attended Utah State University, where he earned a bachelor's degree in animal science. It was at USU, in a church group, that he met the love of his life, Becky. The two were married on November 7, 1998, in the Salt Lake Temple of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Shane returned to his hometown to work the land he loved. A tireless farmer and rancher, he poured his heart into caring for his crops, his cattle, and his community. He also served faithfully as a board member for the Farm Bureau, advocating for agriculture and the families who depend on it.

Shane was a lifelong member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He served a two-year mission in Dallas, Texas, an experience that shaped his compassion and strengthened his testimony. At the time of his passing, he was serving as the first counselor in the Warren Spur Ward bishopric, where he blessed many lives with his kindness, patience, and example.

Shane's talents and passions were many. He found joy in flying, hunting, and working with cows, and he had a special place in his heart for music. He loved playing the piano and guitar once in a while and would often sing in a men's group in church. Recently he was also able to obtain his pilot's license just prior to getting sick with cancer the 2nd time. He was known for his ever-present smile, his quick wit, his gentle humor, and his unwavering desire to help those around him. He was selfless, supportive, and endlessly patient—qualities that endeared him to all who knew him.

Shane is survived by his devoted wife, Becky Alder; his parents, Norman Craig Alder and Kathryn Alder; his cherished children, Madyson Treasure (Ryan), Carson Alder, Connor Alder, and Maycee Alder; and his siblings Michelle Kofoed (Curtis), Tamara Strikwerda (Greg), Melissa Murray (Mike), Joshua Craig Alder (Melinda), and Heidi Parish (John, deceased) and extended family. He was preceded in death by his brother-in-law, John Robert Parish (Heidi Alder Parish.)

Funeral services will be held at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 112 Randolph Dr. Melba, Idaho, with a viewing on Friday, November 28th from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. and a funeral service on Saturday, November 29th at 11:00 a.m with a viewing held prior to the service from 10:00 to 10:45 a.m. All who knew Shane or were touched by his life are warmly invited to attend.

Shane will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and the entire Melba community. His legacy of kindness, service, humor, and love—along with his fondness for cows and ice cream—will live on in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing him.

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Funeral Services

Viewing for Shane Alder

November
28

Friday

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

112 Randolph Drive, Melba, ID 83641

8:00 - 10:00 pm

Viewing for Shane Alder Prior to Funeral Service

November
29

Saturday

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

112 Randolph Drive, Melba, ID 83641

12:00 - 12:45 pm

Funeral Service for Shane Alder

November
29

Saturday

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

112 Randolph Drive, Melba, ID 83641

1:00 - 2:00 pm

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